Keep pushing, and you might end up making him feel uncertain about who he really is. Maybe if I had gone first, it would have stopped her the way her death is stopping me now. Most of the time the way we behave in our gender 'roles' is not because we are men or women. Why stay with a cheater Submitted by Laura on November 4, - Bring me back. A human knows what they are doing and why.
It's been 5 years and he is very attracted to men who look like him and wants to be with a man.
Brutality Submitted by Chrysanthemum on May 6, - 3: My best friend is gay and another trans. We can talk about the details -- and I'll do that in a moment -- but I don't want you to bury your instincts, or dismiss your unease, with any discussion at a logical level.
What this means is that your husband or boyfriend's level of masculinity is no more than how he expresses himself.